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Infidelity :Police officer seeks dissolution of 3-yr-old marriage 

Adoyi Okiwori, 37 years old police officer, has decided to call it quits with his wife of 3yrs old marriage. He approached a Lagos Island Customary Court seeking the dissolution of  the marriage over alleged  infidelity of his wife.

He told the court on Thursday that he met his wife, Grace, in Abuja while they were in the university and she got pregnant and gave birth to their five-year-old son, Divine.

Continuing, He said that they later got married on Dec. 27, 2014, adding that  the union was blissful until 2016 when he started noticing the  strange behaviour of  his wife.

“She sometimes leaves the house without stating where she was going and when she will be back. “I started seeing text messages from numerous lovers on my wife’s phone. There was one I read that said “I enjoyed the nice time we had.”

“When I confronted my wife,  she confessed that she met with the man and that  they only kissed and  did not have sex. “My wife went to a birthday party with another man who slept with her and gave her N40,000 which she used in buying a sewing machine.

“When I could not cope with her infidelity any more,  I reported her to my elder brother who spoke with her and later reported her to her elder sister. “Her sister reprimanded her and my wife started picked up a quarrel  with her. “ My wife no longer speaks  with her sister,’’ he said.

He also told the court that he no longer trusts  his wife and urged the court to dissolve the marriage  while  granting  him custody of his son.

Although the wife, Grace, denied all the allegations, she told the court that her husband was not caring and sometimes does not come home for many days.

“I love him and I have never cheated on him even when he had nothing.  I  became  pregnant and he asked me to  abort, but I still stood by him.

“Since I started my tailoring business, my husband has not contributed any money to it   and he has been feeling insecure. “My husband does not take care of me and he is afraid someone else might be taking care of me outside of the home.

“He goes through my phone and reads meaning to every text message  and chat  he sees. “He took me to shrine in their village in December, 2016,  to swear that if I was having extra marital affairs,  something awful should happen to me and  I did,’’ she said.

She also said her husband had prevented  her from seeing her son who was presently at his sister’s place while all her properties  were still in his house.

She, however, maintained  that she still loves her husband.

The case was adjourned to Feb. 24 to enable family members mediate in the matter by the presiding judge Awosola



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